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Saturday 9: Looking For A Love


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1. When you were single, or if you are single, what's the best way to look for love?

I met my husband online. I heartily recommend it!

2. Have you ever cruised online personals, even if you're married, for fun? What was the reason?

Yeah, for fun. I like looking at the gay personals on Craigslist. Some of them are so outré!

3. Have you ever put up an online personal? If so, how was your experience?

I did, just the once. Two months later, he put a ring on it!

4. Have you ever answered an online personal? If so, how did it turn out?

I haven't. I'm a girl who likes to be pursued.

5. Have you ever had a good experience with online dating? If not, have you had a friend/family member have a good experience? Tell us about it!

Well, considering we had our 10th anniversary in January, I guess it's going pretty well. Sure, we have some (major) ups and downs, but we're happy together and, I'm fairly certain, we'll last.

6. Have you ever had a horrible experience with online dating? If not, someone else?

I met someone in a chat room once, years ago, and decided to go out and meet him for drinks. He turned out to be a devil worshipper. That was exciting...!

7. Back in 2004, a friend threw her husband out because she found out that he was having cyber affairs/sex with 2 women in states FAR away from them. Do you think that cybersex is actually cheating?

Absolutely, without a doubt, it is cheating.

8. Do you have any suggestions for someone as to how to stay safe using a dating service?

I don't guess the safety rules are any different in this situation as any other, so no, I've got nothing new to add to that. Just know yourself and be aware of your limits.

9. I've heard someone say, “There's and then there's everyone else." Is this true in your experience or someone you know?

I don't know, we used and it was all right. Hey, I thought eHarmony was the best? lol

Have a good weekend!